It is the giving season. And with the commercials on TV, the decorations in stores, the ads popping up in Facebook, one might be led to believe that the giving season is really more about getting, getting, getting.
Take away the commercialization of the holidays, though, and you are left with the true spirit of the season. It’s the JOY of giving. When you give to others, you are also giving to yourself. Kindness really does feel good. So step back from the sparkle and shine of the holidays, and take a little time to simply give.
Spread a smile. Sometimes in the hustle and bustle when we are so wrapped up in our own thoughts of what to buy for Uncle Joe, we don’t even notice the people around us. This year, while you are out and about, smile. Smiles really are contagious and can lift the spirits of both the giver and the receiver. See how many smiles you can give – and how many you get in return.
Share a laugh. Take a break and have a little fun with family and friends. See who can come up with the corniest holiday joke. Play a few rounds of Would You Rather. Watch one of the many holiday specials complete with popcorn and hot cocoa. These memories will be priceless.
Lend an ear. While we tend to focus on the excitement and anticipation of the holidays, this time of year can be hard for some people. Maybe they’ve lost a family member. Maybe they are having trouble at home or at work. Maybe they are worried about money. Taking the time to listen – really listen – will mean more to them than you can imagine.
Give your time. Many shelters will be providing even more meals than usual. Perhaps an elderly neighbor could use some help putting up Christmas decorations. Your time is valuable and it will be appreciated.
The joy of giving comes not from how much you spend or how big the gift is. It comes from knowing that what you are giving is from the heart. Happy Holidays! And may you experience the joy of this giving season.